I used to wake up in the morning, content with life because I knew I could wake up to 3 things. A seat in my major's class of 2010, a beautiful campus, and a best friend only steps away from my room. Now that two of those things are gone, I only have one good thing to wake up to in the morning. One reason that I still love being there. And I don't know if that's enough.

I gave up everything to be with you. And now you're leaving. How am I supposed to feel?

I know we're just slow dancing in a burning room. Should I discourage your hands upon my wait and run? Because it's been downhill since we happened. But exhilarating in my heart. Sacrifices must be made to pursue the things you love most. Are you going to have be one of those sacrifices?

I came upon a post today on mancouch.com titled "If a Real Woman Has Curves, What Does a Real Man Have?"

No my note is not going to be on what a "real man" has. Nor am I here to discuss whether I think a curvy woman is a real woman. I am here to give you my definition of curvy.

Curvy does not equal fat.
Fat does not equal curvy.

They are 2 different things! I don't know about you but when I think curvy woman I think hourglass shape. As in they have a bust to waist ratio of .7 or pretty close, and a waist to hip ratio of the same number--hence the hourglass shape. They are not fat. Actually it is a proportional and healthy shape, for the most part. That means whether you have a 42 inch bust or a 32, if your proportions match up, numerically speaking, you're the definition of hourglass curvy.

There are also those upside down triangle shaped ladies with a bigger bust compared to the rest of their body, and the more desirable pear shape, with hips as the largest.

But I dislike it when fat people call themselves curvy. Oh yeah you got curves, rolls of them. That sounds harsh I'm sure but it's true. Curvy, can be attractive but fat is NOT. I do think that heavy women who know how to dress properly can look beautiful. But the point of the charm in being curvy is that you're curvy in certain places, NOT everywhere.

I'm not trying to put down fat people. I'm just trying to state a difference.

I don't need to hear "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" bc I realize that. And half of that has to do with the person's personality as well. I'm only talking about outer-ness lol right now.

When I think curvy, I think attractive. People can't call fat curvy bc it's not attractive.
If you're not curvy or fat then that's perfectly fine! Just as long as not you're no claiming you're cuvy or fat.

Above is an American Apparel model featured in enough clothing styles to piss me off.
Who the fuck is she?! She SUCKS as a model. Her body shape makes you NOT want to buy the clothes. I mean come on, at least learn how to lean on a hip a little if you're a total box-shape. and her face! ugh look at it. If she was trying to go for that neutral-nonchalant-natural look, she obviously failed. And there are models on AA that do it better. A good model doesn't have to be pretty, or even have the best body, but this girl sucks. I kinda wanna get her fired xD